Every Boy Needs a Dog

Why do boys long to have a dog by their side during life's adventures? How does a busy mom cope with this additional responsibility?

After raising six boys, I realized... every boy needs a dog. Dogs and boys get along very well. The boy provides activity and adventure for the dog and the dog provides for the boy companionship, friendship and someone to turn to. Having a dog will build a boys self esteem.

My son often said, "Missy is the only girl who accepts me for who I really am". Missy was rescued from a snow storm by my son the day after Christmas. He found her in the middle of the snowy field, half frozen and half starved. He was able to bring her back to life with tender love and care. Missy, in turn, gave back to him unconditional love and companionship.

Dogs have the instinctual ability to read human emotion. They have a sixth sense, of sorts, to tune into what their owner is feeling. They will wait by the door, knowing that it is time for their boy to come home. A dog gives a boy confidence and an ego boost. Dogs know how to comfort us. One of the reasons that dogs are, "mans best friend", is that dogs are always there for us. Dogs don't have to go to school or meet a schedule. A dogs every waking hour is dedicated to being there for his boy. Emotionally, knowing this, a boy will develop courage and self confidence. He will learn that he is good enough, because his dog loves him no matter what mistakes he might make.

Providing your boy with a dog to love and care for is a great boost to his development. Caring for his dog will give a boy the opportunity to care for someone else. This will help develop compassion. He will learn to take responsibility for caring and providing for his dog.

Moms will find that the responsibility of dog ownership will often fall on her shoulders. Boys are learning and, at times, will let care of their dog slip. Understand, moms, that the benefits greatly out weigh the work.

There are several ways to make the transition to dog ownership easier. First, take the time to learn more about training a dog. A well behaved dog will decrease the stress on mom. Second, realize that the first year of a puppies life will be the most challenging. Fortify yourself with the knowledge that it will get easier. After the first year of training, a dog will settle down. The "naughty" puppy behaviors will diminish and eventually stop. Third, stand firm. Your boy must provide his share of the work. Boys will lose interest in caring for their dog. Make sure that you follow through with teaching your boy how to become a responsible dog owner.

Soon you will provide an invaluable companion for your son. His dog will give him a best friend to help him through times of trouble and distress, and will give him someone to play with, love, and adore. This makes a Moms job of raising her son easier... thus... EVERY boy needs a dog.

This news article is brought to you by DRUG-ABUSE - where latest news are our top priority.